Monday, December 21, 2009

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Wednesday, December 09, 2009

Jaden update

I know that I am not doing a good job updating this site but I have a very busy 1 year old as my excuse. I do still put pictures up on the shutterfly site though. That is much easier because I dont have to site down and type up something!


So Jaden will be turning 13 months old in a few days. She is getting so big and doing so well! It is hard to believe that we have had her for 4 months now. Somedays it feels like we just got her and other days it feels like she has been with us forever. She brings so much joy and happiness to our lives and our families lives. I could not imagine our life without her. I catch myself forgetting she is adopted. I will say little things like she gets her allergies from Rusty and such and such. I could not have loved a biological child anymore than I love her. She is no less a member of our family than her cousins. Just because our blood does not run through her veins does not make her any less a family member. She is our daughter and we love her more than we could imagine possible!

Ok enough mushy stuff. I know ya'll want to know how Jaden is doing. Well she is now running! It was so much easier when she was just crawling. I know the dogs liked it much better before she was walking. She had her 12 month check-up with the doctor and he was very impressed with her progress. In many cases children who are adopted have some delays. Not Jaden, she is ahead in everything! He was amazed by her. Rusty and I were just talking the other night about how lucky we were. We had no problems at all with Jaden except for sleeping and the only problem there is that she wants to sleep with us. In my opinion that is not even a problem! Her new word is more. If she wants more she will let you know. The other night Rusty let her have a bite of ice-cream and she kept saying more. I dont think Rusty got to eat any of his ice-cream.

She is taking her naps in her own crib. We had to buy her a new crib because we had one of the drop down cribs and we didn't want to chance anything with her! It has been nice having a break everyday while she sleeps. She is a velcro baby for sure but she has started playing by herself.


She loves Lancie, our big dog. They are always side by side! Lancie will not let you get close to her if she does not know you. She can bite Lancie's ears, climb on her and hit her and Lancie doesn't move. I am so thankful for this because I was worried about her. The other two dogs could really do without Jaden. Our littlest one will play with her if I am not looking. Gabbie on the other hand has nothing to do with her. I think it has something to do with the fact that Jaden hits her all the time.


She now has 8 teeth! She only eats table food which is a plus for us since we dont have to buy baby food! I had a sad moment this week when she ran out of formula. She no longer needs it but I feel like I am losing my baby. I even took pictures of the empty can! I know that is sad, but I only had a baby on formula for four months, most people get 12 months.


We get so many comments when we are out and about from people. They all say how beautiful she is. Then they want to hear her story and we have no problem telling people.

I still can't believe how blessed we are with her. I thank God everyday that we had to adopt to make our family. She has made our life all the more beautiful and special just being here!


Friday, November 27, 2009

So much to post so little time!

Well I know there is so much I should have posted by now but there has been no time! We have been busy, out of town or sick the whole time. So I will give an update while my little snot nose is occupied.

We had Jaden's party two weeks ago and it went great. I never knew there was so much work throwing a kids party! And it was only for family! I went with a duck them because she loves ducks! She had a great time but was not interested in opening the presents. Thank goodness her honorary family member Charlie was there to help!



Charlie was so thrilled that Jaden got maracas! hahaha!

Cousin Chase had a great time testing out Jaden's riding toy!

The girls loved the ballpit from Nana and Papaw!

Then it was cake time! In our family each baby gets there own chocolate cake to dig into. Jaden wasn't to sure about it at first but once she got a taste she went at it head on! She had to have a bath after she ate cake!!!










Before the party we did alittle photo shoot, thankgoodness we didn't wait till after the cake!


Pretty little Sophie just taking it all in!


Jaden's "Aunt" Amy was there to help celebrate!



Aunt Brenda and Uncle John came all the way from Mississippi!




After the party and before my parents left we decided I would go home with them since Rusty would be in Boston for the week. So we packed the van with three people, one baby, and 3 dogs and hit the road for Mississippi! It was not a fun 13 hours. While we were there Jaden got to meet her cousins, great granparents and her aunt and uncle from Arizona for the first time!



Jodus didnt think he would like his cousin but he decided she was pretty cool!


And then we came home and brought something with us! Mr. Sinusitus! Yep we all three have it. It has been such a joy around here with one whinning toddler and one whinning husband! It just doesn't get any better than this!

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Jaden is the big 1!!!

Well I can hardly believe it but my little girl turned 1 today! We are having a family party for her on Saturday. All day long I have been answering phone calls from my family telling her happy birthday. My parent's even drove up from Mississippi today and my aunt and uncle will come in tomorrow!
We spent the evening dining at her favorite place, Buffalo Wild Wings. Yhea she loves it cause she can make as much noise as possible and not get in trouble!
She is no longer my little baby, she is now my little toddler. She is walking up a storm. There is no stopping her. We finally put up baby gates to keep her contained. We are really getting a workout these days!
She slept everyday last week and this week in her crib at nap time! This is a BIG step because she has been sleeping in our bed since she has come home and refused to sleep in her room! We are taking baby steps to move her to her room during the night.
Enjoy the pics and check back for the party pics this weekend!






Tuesday, November 03, 2009

3 Months with our girl! An update of what's up!

It's hard to believe that Monday was our three month gotcha day! At times it seems like yesterday and then again it feels like she has always been here! It is also hard to believe that one week from tomorrow my little girl is turning one! We are planning a big family party for the birthday girl. I even have family from Mississippi making the long trip.
Jaden is doing great! I could not ask for a better baby. She is so happy all the time. She wakes up smiling and goes to bed smiling! She has brought such joy and happiness to our life! I am so glad we stuck it out even though there were times I wanted to jump ship.
So what has Jaden been doing lately?
- She is taking more and more steps on her own. Each time she goes farther and farther.
- She has learned to climb a whole flight of stairs on her own!(with me behind her of course)
- She is still doing great with the potty, there have been a few days I never have to change a diaper!
- She is doing great with her sippy cup. She holds it herself and knows how to drink from it.
- She really knows how to tease the dogs!
- She is not a fan of the baby gates we have put up to keep her off the stairs and out of the kitchen!
- She went trick-or-treating for the first time and made the cutest bumble bee!
- She talks on her phone and answers it with her version of hello!
- She loves brushing her teeth!
- She has learned that she can push her chair against the coffee table and do some table dancing on top!
- She is not a girly girl, no bows or dresses for this kid!
- She is now taking naps in her crib!!! This is big news. She has been sleeping in our bed pretty much since she came home. She still sleeps the night with us but that is ok.

Now what have I learned:
- Being a mommy is the hardest and most rewarding job in the world. Its a 24/7 job.
- Being a mommy is the best form of weight lose you could have!
- There are never enough hours in the day to get it all done.
- We are now on her schedule.
- The best place to take a baby on a Sunday night is Buffalo Wild Wings. Beer, Football, and load noise all equal a blast for one baby who loves to make noise!(no she didn't get beer, nor did I)
- It doesn't matter how much pink you put on the kid someone is still going to say what a cute little boy she is!
- mommy's kisses seem to fix those hurts alittle better than daddy's!
- There is always someone who thinks they know more about your kid then you do!
- There is always someone who thinks they are a better parent then you.
- There is always someone who really thinks they should tell you what you are doing wrong and what you need to do.
- Not every baby goes by the book. Every baby is different.
I have learned that it is ok to raise our daughter how we raise her. Its ok that she sleeps with us at night. As long has we are happy and she is happy and safe that is all the matters. Its ok that she stays up till 10 or 11 because she is a night owl,she sleeps till 9 or 10 and she is happy. Its ok that I let people hold her, she likes people. But she knows who her parents are and she always makes sure we are there. Its also ok that I dont want to leave her and go out. Right now my place is with my daughter. I trust Rusty to watch her but I dont want to leave her. I dont want to miss one step, one kiss, or one bath time.
So we have both learned alot and I am so happy that I got this lesson!